Avoid being a victim of situations

Abstract

Every one of us often face a common problem in our lives on a day?to?day basis. This relates to our inability to handle a difficult situation that we face either in our office or in our home. The boss is unhappy with the work that we have done and therefore gives a piece of his mind to us. We end up with a heated argument with our colleagues in a meeting in which we cross the limits of decency and start yelling at each other. At home we may sometimes engage in an argument on an apparently simple issue with our better half or our parents. In the course of this argument we exceed our limits and end up with a bad relationship and a mood. At other times, the child bears the brunt of everything that happens at our office. We pick up an unimportant issue and use that opportunity to vent all our frustrations in the form of abusing the child. Many of us exhibit this behavior from time to time. Invariably we feel bad about the entire episode after a while. After some time when we calm down and reflect on these events we repent for our bad behavior.